Comments for Metro Dude http://www.mattmetrodude.com One guy, a lot of BS, and a bit of fun Sat, 05 Jul 2008 06:52:11 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5.1 Comment on When is a man a man? by Rachel http://www.mattmetrodude.com/2008/06/when-is-a-man-a-man/#comment-218 Rachel Thu, 03 Jul 2008 09:08:36 +0000 http://www.mattmetrodude.com/?p=59#comment-218 I do have to wonder about men and women who keep ending up with people that screw them over. You are the common factor in this equation. Do you ever wonder if maybe it is that you keep getting attracted to the wrong people? Go out with someone that isn't your usual type and you might be surprised. I do have to wonder about men and women who keep ending up with people that screw them over. You are the common factor in this equation. Do you ever wonder if maybe it is that you keep getting attracted to the wrong people? Go out with someone that isn’t your usual type and you might be surprised.

]]> Comment on When is a man a man? by Kathy@brazoscowgirl http://www.mattmetrodude.com/2008/06/when-is-a-man-a-man/#comment-216 Kathy@brazoscowgirl Wed, 02 Jul 2008 01:19:40 +0000 http://www.mattmetrodude.com/?p=59#comment-216 Matt, Thanks for leaving up the eye candy! Geez I hope you didn't take me seriously! I am of Scottish descent as well, Duncan was my grandfather. I do think a lot of men are having your problem. My son dated a girl that was " a baby", it was very hard for him. He really wanted to have fun but with a companion. In college maybe he will find a girl not over spoiled. Nope you need a woman! She is out there, I just don't know her name! Matt,
Thanks for leaving up the eye candy! Geez I hope you didn’t take me seriously! I am of Scottish descent as well, Duncan was my grandfather. I do think a lot of men are having your problem. My son dated a girl that was ” a baby”, it was very hard for him. He really wanted to have fun but with a companion. In college maybe he will find a girl not over spoiled.

Nope you need a woman! She is out there, I just don’t know her name!

]]> Comment on When is a man a man? by asithi http://www.mattmetrodude.com/2008/06/when-is-a-man-a-man/#comment-215 asithi Tue, 01 Jul 2008 16:19:04 +0000 http://www.mattmetrodude.com/?p=59#comment-215 Believe it or not, but I actually side with Matt. My younger brother has the exact same problem with the women he is dating. And I seriously believe that most of the women he is dating are"'girls" in disguise. I believe that there are "men" who will always be "boys" and "women" who will always be "girls." These are not the people that can handle a normal mature relationship. I have a new co-worker, that acts and sounds like a little girl and she is 24. She is trying to make friends at work so they can have "dress alike" days and claps her hands and says "yeah" when she does something right. This woman is an engineer like me. I would not want to work on any project with her. Granted, she is an extreme case, but she will always be a girl. Believe it or not, but I actually side with Matt. My younger brother has the exact same problem with the women he is dating. And I seriously believe that most of the women he is dating are”‘girls” in disguise. I believe that there are “men” who will always be “boys” and “women” who will always be “girls.” These are not the people that can handle a normal mature relationship.

I have a new co-worker, that acts and sounds like a little girl and she is 24. She is trying to make friends at work so they can have “dress alike” days and claps her hands and says “yeah” when she does something right. This woman is an engineer like me. I would not want to work on any project with her. Granted, she is an extreme case, but she will always be a girl.

]]> Comment on When is a man a man? by Christi MacNelly http://www.mattmetrodude.com/2008/06/when-is-a-man-a-man/#comment-214 Christi MacNelly Tue, 01 Jul 2008 15:31:58 +0000 http://www.mattmetrodude.com/?p=59#comment-214 Well I’m pretty sure that women don’t always know what they want. If we were all honest we would admit that. That doesn’t mean we don’t always know, just not always. Sometimes it's not our fault. Some are raised by fathers who weren’t loving and affectionate. So thye grow up wanting to be treated “like a lady”, but then don't know how to handle it. Hence the reason for needing to date a prick. Others have fathers that treated them like queens, so no man stands a chance matching those needs. But on the other hand, there are men that are raised as the center of attention and expect women to fall all over them or others that are not given enough affection and end up stalker material. Some women need to let their men be men, some men treat women like idiots. Women don’t need a daddy in their men and if your man wanted to be with someone who had bigger balls than him, he would swing the other way. I have abilities, strengths and a brain. I can do a lot of things my husband can’t. He however also has abilities, strengths and wisdom that I can learn from. That makes us equal but different! What’s wrong with that? We have 5 sons and raising them to, love God, respect others, treat women right and work hard has been a thrilling ride. What I think it all boils down to is mutual respect. Unfortunately that seems to come with age and experience. Matt, good luck finding your equal but different woman! Well I’m pretty sure that women don’t always know what they want. If we were all honest we would admit that. That doesn’t mean we don’t always know, just not always.
Sometimes it’s not our fault. Some are raised by fathers who weren’t loving and affectionate. So thye grow up wanting to be treated “like a lady”, but then don’t know how to handle it. Hence the reason for needing to date a prick.

Others have fathers that treated them like queens, so no man stands a chance matching those needs. But on the other hand, there are men that are raised as the center of attention and expect women to fall all over them or others that are not given enough affection and end up stalker material.

Some women need to let their men be men, some men treat women like idiots. Women don’t need a daddy in their men and if your man wanted to be with someone who had bigger balls than him, he would swing the other way.

I have abilities, strengths and a brain. I can do a lot of things my husband can’t. He however also has abilities, strengths and wisdom that I can learn from. That makes us equal but different! What’s wrong with that? We have 5 sons and raising them to, love God, respect others, treat women right and work hard has been a thrilling ride. What I think it all boils down to is mutual respect. Unfortunately that seems to come with age and experience.

Matt, good luck finding your equal but different woman!

]]> Comment on When is a man a man? by nicole||Inspire Emotion http://www.mattmetrodude.com/2008/06/when-is-a-man-a-man/#comment-213 nicole||Inspire Emotion Tue, 01 Jul 2008 14:00:10 +0000 http://www.mattmetrodude.com/?p=59#comment-213 Evil Woobie said: "“Why should I get a man when I have a vibrator. it doesn’t need to be cared for, it doesn’t get jealous… it just needs batteries.” :D That a woman loves a man is a wonderful thing. Be thankful we even bother. :D" LMAO! :) Evil Woobie said: ““Why should I get a man when I have a vibrator. it doesn’t need to be cared for, it doesn’t get jealous… it just needs batteries.” :D That a woman loves a man is a wonderful thing. Be thankful we even bother. :D”

LMAO! :)

]]> Comment on When is a man a man? by Jules http://www.mattmetrodude.com/2008/06/when-is-a-man-a-man/#comment-212 Jules Tue, 01 Jul 2008 12:32:15 +0000 http://www.mattmetrodude.com/?p=59#comment-212 Hey Matt.... I hope you know we were just having fun. We weren't trying to be mean or torch ya. You're comment to evil woobie was funny, because in my first response that my computer locked up on I referenced the same thing about women not needing men to have a baby. I was afraid it made me sound like a man hater so I didn't include it when I had to rewrite my response! hahahahah My hubby says women who are too toough on guys are ball-breakers! I don't want that label~ BTW my maiden name is Mullins and my ancestry is Scotch-Irish. (Reddish brown hair, green eyes, freckles). My brother and I want to plan a trip to Scotland and Ireland one day. Hey Matt….
I hope you know we were just having fun. We weren’t trying to be mean or torch ya.
You’re comment to evil woobie was funny, because in my first response that my computer locked up on I referenced the same thing about women not needing men to have a baby. I was afraid it made me sound like a man hater so I didn’t include it when I had to rewrite my response! hahahahah My hubby says women who are too toough on guys are ball-breakers! I don’t want that label~

BTW my maiden name is Mullins and my ancestry is Scotch-Irish. (Reddish brown hair, green eyes, freckles). My brother and I want to plan a trip to Scotland and Ireland one day.

]]> Comment on When is a man a man? by admin http://www.mattmetrodude.com/2008/06/when-is-a-man-a-man/#comment-211 admin Mon, 30 Jun 2008 14:59:15 +0000 http://www.mattmetrodude.com/?p=59#comment-211 LOL, thanks evil woobie, I read somewhere once that in a few years women won't even need men for children anymore. I think the article said men are basically about to become extinct. I don't want to be extinct! LOL, thanks evil woobie, I read somewhere once that in a few years women won’t even need men for children anymore. I think the article said men are basically about to become extinct. I don’t want to be extinct!

]]> Comment on When is a man a man? by evilwoobie http://www.mattmetrodude.com/2008/06/when-is-a-man-a-man/#comment-210 evilwoobie Mon, 30 Jun 2008 14:11:01 +0000 http://www.mattmetrodude.com/?p=59#comment-210 Men are partners, and yes they shouldn't be too tough all the time. Women need support emotionally and so do men. I like the give and take thing. You know your thing. I end this comment with a quote: "Why should I get a man when I have a vibrator. it doesn't need to be cared for, it doesn't get jealous... it just needs batteries." :D That a woman loves a man is a wonderful thing. Be thankful we even bother. :D Men are partners, and yes they shouldn’t be too tough all the time. Women need support emotionally and so do men. I like the give and take thing. You know your thing.

I end this comment with a quote: “Why should I get a man when I have a vibrator. it doesn’t need to be cared for, it doesn’t get jealous… it just needs batteries.”

:D That a woman loves a man is a wonderful thing. Be thankful we even bother. :D

]]> Comment on When is a man a man? by admin http://www.mattmetrodude.com/2008/06/when-is-a-man-a-man/#comment-209 admin Mon, 30 Jun 2008 06:47:00 +0000 http://www.mattmetrodude.com/?p=59#comment-209 Jules, well being attacked by women isn't much fun unless you can visualise them in sexy lingerie, the verbal kind I don't know how to handlebut I could be really smart and say that I'm one of the good guys who isn't afraid to let a woman speak her mind and not argue back at her Kathy, thanks for stopping by, I agree there are some great women out there, maybe I should write a followup post about when is a woman a woman? Jules, well being attacked by women isn’t much fun unless you can visualise them in sexy lingerie, the verbal kind I don’t know how to handlebut I could be really smart and say that I’m one of the good guys who isn’t afraid to let a woman speak her mind and not argue back at her

Kathy, thanks for stopping by, I agree there are some great women out there, maybe I should write a followup post about when is a woman a woman?

]]> Comment on When is a man a man? by Kathy@brazoscowgirl http://www.mattmetrodude.com/2008/06/when-is-a-man-a-man/#comment-208 Kathy@brazoscowgirl Sun, 29 Jun 2008 22:55:01 +0000 http://www.mattmetrodude.com/?p=59#comment-208 Wow Matt I am thinking you are brilliant! Okay maybe it is just me but you are on the road to figuring out that woman are so complicated you might just give up trying. Quit while you are ahead. Honestly you make sense right up until I see what kind of pictures you like! Too funny when you think about. Women are a different species, and some of us are truly worth the effort. Others are honestly a pain the butt. Jules sent me here. blame her! I have watched women that should have been left decades before. Basically you are hoping to marry a woman not a girl. Somebody that allows you to be you. I am too old and ugly for that, plus I have this guy called Hubby. But believe me there are real women out there for the taking! Wow Matt I am thinking you are brilliant! Okay maybe it is just me but you are on the road to figuring out that woman are so complicated you might just give up trying. Quit while you are ahead. Honestly you make sense right up until I see what kind of pictures you like! Too funny when you think about. Women are a different species, and some of us are truly worth the effort. Others are honestly a pain the butt.

Jules sent me here. blame her!

I have watched women that should have been left decades before. Basically you are hoping to marry a woman not a girl. Somebody that allows you to be you. I am too old and ugly for that, plus I have this guy called Hubby. But believe me there are real women out there for the taking!

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